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A lot of these are borderline. He didn't except Cristina to be a servant, like clean and cook for him, but he did expect her to do what he wanted re: kids.

He got drunk and came over to her apartment and then forced his way in and into her shower over her objections. Also, I know this was just imaginary, but in the second potential future in Do You Know?, he did become an alcoholic.

He instill fear after the choking (which is PTSD-related, I know) as well as when he punched the patient and when he screamed at Cristina to try to get her not to have an abortion. He refused to communicate with her because she wouldn't do what he wanted until Meredith talked to him about it.