Thread:Nerdfightergirl/@comment-10869127-20130814033342/@comment-5278765-20130814034330

They are my favorite couple of all time forever.

It's pretty obvious Arizona's got some stuff going on up there. I think saying she just needs to get over it is highly insensitive language, too. Amputation is a very serious thing for someone to go through and I'm quite glad they've been dedicated to showing that it's more than just recovering physically. I mean, her body was lying to her mind about being in pain. It's easy for people who have never experienced that kind of loss and that kind of adjustment (going from living totally independently to needing assistance just to use the bathroom is a good example) to say that she just needs to get over it.

What she did was crappy. I'm NOT disputing that. She's not a saint and neither is Callie. I think her military family background really worked against her on this. She has been bred from birth not to ask for help. She's very independent. I mean, her father wouldn't even allow her one minute at her own wedding to grieve the loss of her only sibling. She strikes me as the type of woman whose self-worth depends entirely on being able to live independently and support herself and her family. So I think she pushed it. And I think Callie allowed it because Arizona has always buried things rather than dealing with them, so Callie thought this would just go away like everything has in the past.

But it didn't. It was always there, waiting to come back up. Once Bailey lit that fire, she rushed to get back to work. Once Callie made it clear how much she missed sex, Arizona pushed herself to be ready to have sex again. I think her cheating was the dam finally breaking. I still think they're endgame. But season ten is gonna hurt a lot.

This got really long. I did not mean for it to be this long.