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Freezing. Choking. Getting tongue-tied. It's what we call it when your mind goes from brilliant to blank. You can prepare all you want, but the feeling can still hit you, out of nowhere. So when it hits you, when your mind shuts down, when you open your mouth and no words come out, the good news is, it happens to all of us. Freezing. Choking. Getting tongue-tied. There's a reason it happens. We lose our words because the stakes are so high and we have so much to lose. We're petrified of saying too much or saying it wrong, when the truth is the only wrong thing you could say is nothing at all.

Who Is He (And What Is He To You)? is the sixteenth episode of the thirteenth season and the 285th overall episode of Grey's Anatomy.

Short Summary

Jackson and April travel to Montana in order to perform a complicated surgery on a young patient, but Jackson's mind is elsewhere, and April is forced to step up and get him back on track.

Full Summary

Cast

Main Cast

Guest Stars

Co-Starring

Medical Notes

Bryan Young

  • Diagnosis: Brain death
  • Treatment:
    • Organ harvesting and donation

Caroline Hodges

  • Diagnosis: Throat tumor (laynx cancer)
  • Doctors:
  • Treatment:
    • Tumor removal
    • Self-organ donation (created from intestines, appendix and ileocecal valve) to creat a larynx and vocal cords/tubes

Music

Song Performer Scene
"Doubt" Mary J. Blige
  • April and Jackson prepare for surgery.
  • Jackson makes the first incision.
  • They operate.
  • They finish.
  • Jackson and April go back to their rooms.
  • They kiss and Jackson carries her into his room.
"You Don't Know" Jill Scott
  • Jackson leaves the diner.
  • Caroline speaks hesitantly for the first time since her surgery.
  • Her mothers celebrate.
  • Jackson and April get off the plane and are greeted by Catherine and Harriet.
  • Jackson thanks his mother for everything.
  • They get in the car to go home.


Notes and Trivia

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Grey's Anatomy 13x16 Promo "Who Is He (And What Is He To You)?" (HD) Season 13 Episode 16 Promo

  • This episode's title originated from the song Who Is He (And What Is He To You)?, originally sung by Bill Withers.
  • This episode scored million viewers.
  • This is the first episode in the entire series not to feature Ellen Pompeo as Meredith Grey.
  • It's also the episode with fewest cast members appearing with only two, Jesse Williams and Sarah Drew.
  • This episode is also referred to as #JaprilTheSequel on social media, in reference to the season twelve episode Unbreak My Heart, which was dubbed #JaprilTheMovie.
  • The episode was filmed in Agoura Hills. The diner is an actual diner called The Old Place, located on 29983 Mulholland Hwy, Cornell.
  • Originally, the scenes at the diner were all supposed to be interior, but Kevin insisted on also including exterior scenes because it would make it easier for the audience to feel like they're on a trip with the characters. He also had to fight to get all the snow.
  • The episode was also filmed with the Scandal crew instead of the regular Grey's Anatomy crew, so the experience was really different for the actors as well.
  • Jackson Avery narrates the voice over for this episode, making it the first episode where he narrates the voice over on his own. He previously shared a voice over with all the male main characters in season eight.
  • This is the episode that will introduce Jackson's father.

Gallery

Episode Stills

Behind the Scenes

Quotes

See Also

A complete overview of this episode's crew can be found here.

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